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Great article! This is way too relatable for me.

I spent time over the last few years compiling a random list of movies that, for one reason or another, are considered must-watch. Anything from Casablanca to Hitchcock classics to Dumb & Dumber to the Terminator franchise made the list. I just thought it would be nice to have a great list to draw from when we’re struggling to choose something to watch as a family.

My entire family has ridiculed “Dad’s list” from day one. The last thing they want to do during a movie night is watch one of the movies from my list, especially if it’s an “old” movie – old movies are intrinsically poor.

And I’ve experienced the half-aware, moderately mocking and dismissive “watching” of great movies I’ve put in front of them. It sucks.

I may have to forward this to them. I wonder if they'll see my comment...

Editing to add the list, for what it's worth:

⁃ Butch Cassidy & the Sundance Kid

⁃ Amadeus

⁃ Amazing Grace

⁃ Chariots of Fire

⁃ Braveheart

⁃ Happy Gilmore

⁃ Gravity (Sandra Bullock space movie

⁃ Goodfellas

⁃ Dances with Wolves

⁃ Good Will Hunting

⁃ Dead Poet Society

⁃ A Beautiful Mind

⁃ Stand by Me

⁃ Thelma and Louise

⁃ Cinema Paradiso

⁃ The Searchers (John Ford western starring John Wayne)

⁃ The Deer Hunter (famous movie about the Vietnam War)

⁃ It Happened One Night (1934 Clark Gable romantic comedy)

⁃ Almost Famous

⁃ The Shining

⁃ Mr Smith Goes to Washington

⁃ Saving Private Ryan

⁃ Ram Holiday

⁃ Charade

⁃ Goldfinger

⁃ Notorious (Hitchcock)

⁃ E.T.

⁃ There Will Be Blood

⁃ Blade Runner (Netflix)

⁃ Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner (1967)

⁃ Rear Window

⁃ Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

⁃ Lawrence of Arabia

⁃ 12 Years a Slave

⁃ Pan’s Labyrinth

⁃ Gone with the Wind

⁃ Double Indemnity

⁃ The Maltese Falcon

⁃ Dr. Strangelove

⁃ Chinatown (noir mystery, Jack Nicholson)

⁃ All About Eve

⁃ When Harry Met Sally (rom-com)

⁃ The Silence of the Lambs

⁃ It’s a Wonderful Life

⁃ 2001: A Space Odyssey

⁃ Raging Bull

⁃ Singin’ in the Rain

⁃ City Lights (silent Charlie Chaplin rom-com)

⁃ Pulp Fiction

⁃ Schindler’s List

⁃ The Godfather

⁃ Citizen Kane

⁃ Casablanca

⁃ Vertigo

⁃ Inglorious Basterds

⁃ The Great Escape

⁃ Chicken Run

⁃ Big Trouble in Little China (from Everett - watch with McKee)

⁃ Terminator

⁃ Anne of Green Gables

⁃ Grumpy Old Men

⁃ Nerds

⁃ Pride & Prejudice (BBC)

⁃ The Big Lebowski

⁃ Talladega Nights

⁃ Best of the Best

⁃ End of the Dragon

⁃ Gattaga

⁃ The Grand Budapest Hotel

⁃ Lost in Translation (early summer)

⁃ Remains of the Day (fall)

⁃ The Fantastic Mr. Fox (Thanksgiving)

⁃ Diehard

⁃ Why Beauty Matters

⁃ Dazed and Confused

⁃ Hoodwinked

⁃ Hoosiers

⁃ Family Man

⁃ Persuasion (Jane Austen)

⁃ New in Town (Angela accent movie)

⁃ Terminator movies

⁃ Shakespeare in Love

⁃ Belfast (Kenneth Branagh)

⁃ While You Were Sleeping (Christmas)

⁃ What About Bob?

⁃ Groundhog Day

⁃ While You Were Sleeping

⁃ You’ve Got Mail

⁃ The Terminal

⁃ Gladiator

⁃ Last of the Mohicans

⁃ The Italian Job

⁃ Ocean’s Eleven

⁃ The Thomas Crown Affair

⁃ Jason Bourne movies

⁃ Rounders

⁃ Temple Grandin

⁃ Mr. Holland’s Opus

⁃ Dumb and Dumber

⁃ Happy Gilmore

⁃ Love Actually (Christmas)

⁃ The Holiday (Christmas)

⁃ The Man Who Invented Christmas (about Dickens)

⁃ Rambo movies

⁃ Hunt for the Wilderpeople

⁃ Safety Not Guaranteed

⁃ Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves

⁃ 10 Things I Hate About You

⁃ Sleepless in Seattle

⁃ Good Will Hunting

⁃ Saving Private Ryan

⁃ Sense & Sensibility

⁃ Moneyball

⁃ Conan the Barbarian

⁃ The Big Year (Jack Black, Steve Martin, Owen Wilson) (birdwatching comedy)

⁃ Jerry Maguire

⁃ Anger Management

⁃ Raising Arizona

⁃ White Squall

⁃ My Side of the Mountain

⁃ The Man from Snowy River (and the Return)

⁃ Jean-Claude Van Damm (eg Timecop)

TV

⁃ Ted Lasso

⁃ Doc Martin (BBC / acorn)

⁃ Foyle’s War (BBC)

⁃ Spy

⁃ Win the Wilderness

⁃ Tales from the Tour Bus

⁃ Firefly

⁃ Babylon 5

⁃ Star Trek: The Next Generation

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Bo Kyle's avatar

No criticism here! I've hosted several movie nights for youth ministry, and I've found that humor is the timeless element that resonates. For your next movie night, I’d suggest a comedy. "Nacho Libre" was a good choice for middle schoolers. While it's not my top pick, it’s family-friendly and has plenty of laughs. Trust me, the kids will be quoting lines from it for weeks, which can be both fun and a bit annoying! What other funny movies would be suitable for high school and middle school students?

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